As long as you're trying, I'm staying.
I used to have the tendency to get too attached with someone which I think is a very bad thing. I find it hard to let go of people who have become close to my heart because I keep holding on to the memories I've shared with them and I feel like losing them would be a shame. So even if they do me wrong, I forgive them because it's the only way to keep them.
I am completely aware of how stupid that is that's why I've taught myself how to be less attached... and yeah, I've gradually learned how to not get attached to someone. When I decided to put my defenses up, I also tried to not be the person who is scared of losing someone.
Ever since then, I have lived by the thought that people come and go. No one will stay forever. If people want to stay in my life, they will find a way, I won't have to fight too hard. And if I lose people along the way, I know that there's a good reason why we came across each other and why they couldn't stay until the end.
And if by any chance I find someone who plans to stay longer than usual, good for me and good for him as well because as long as he wants me around, I'm staying.